Ikan Bilis group leaders material- BGR 2
Friday, August 26, 2005

This will be for next week, 4/9.

I know that some of us are going for our exam and is thinking of taking a break. It is totally unfair to put a benchmark and say that all cannot take a break, but it would unfair too for our student to be "leaderless" would it? Yet we have our limits, and our limits differ from one another. But I ask for everyone to consider twice for taking time off. Why? because it is more than one time off that matter. Where is our fights? yes, it is easy to say commitment when we are free. Or do we say that we commit because it is convenient. So when time is not convenient, we don't commit any more. When will we learn? Moreover, whatever decision we made now, don't we realise that it is no longer private but it will affect someone, it would either be our student or our fellow leaders.

Yet, I cannot generalise for everyone. So for those of us who choose to sacrifice, we should not look at those who didn't like they are worst off. We are all nothing but tools use by God, and we should constantly help those who do not see and encourage them to see.


Now for the lesson proper.

I have send 2 worksheet to you by mail. if you have problem recieving it, I will mail again with a lower mb. Pregnancy Test worksheet will be for the girls and Sexuality on hold will be for the boys.

Older leaders would need to get lead the last part which is not the questionaire (Let the younger one do the simplier work). You however, can look at the verses given and summaries for them. Matthew 6:1 and Roman 14:7-12.

For both Roman 14:7-12 and Matthew 6:1 would talk more of our pride which made us think we have all the answer. But no, we do not. Abortion is murder and sex before marriage is not what God desire for us, and that we must recognise. And whatever decision we made, we must stay conscienious that we do not do it for selfish gain, rather for the glory of God. And it may be something the world would see it as foolish, but to God, it want He wants.

We would gather and I would conclude this.

1. Begin with the end in mind.
What we normally want to start a relationship doesn't make us what to see the end of it. So if we do not have a good reason for it and believe in it, we would see nothing much of it either.
2. Slowness does mean ineffective.
Growth for some of us is slower than others, sometime it make us think that because our friends grow faster, they know more things, experience more things. And most of the time, the bad things that our parent say looks cool on this people such that it no longer is good to be a good person.
3. We fall in love with someone because we fall in love with love.
But the real love is still missing in our lifes.

Posted by Sheep In Wolf Clothing 11:55 PM