Do the worksheet with them. "Even my enemy?"
Same as usual, do split the work to your co leaders.
For item 1. Make sure you clarify what do enemies mean to them. My definition is simple. For those that
1. You try not to talk about him
2. You try not to associate with him
3. You don't even what to associate anything that link with him, even it have nothing to do with him. eg. Friends, place.
For item 3, instead of getting your people to do that, ask them to to the SURPRISE work in the Surprise your enemies-overcome evil with good.
And then get one of your leaders to wrap up Matt 5:43-48. Please read the teacher's guide to understand it. Especially on Matt 5:43. Do your own summary for this one. You can look at the Love your enemy worksheet for guide line.
eg What loave your enemies is not.
Are you en enemy to someone?
And you may want to touch a little on verse 5:23,24.
As to why we do it? Simple. Because if God can do it to us, which we do not deserve to be. ( We was once enemy to God)Then why can't we do it on to our enemy? It only means that we have not understand the meaning of our salvation, and the fact that we cannot love our enemies indicate that our pride still exist, then the question is what would happen to our enemies soul. If we are not to love them, and therefore act on it, would our enemies soul be save. If our enemies are our brothers in Christ, then shouldn't they be our friend instead of enemies knowing the fact that we have a common God.
Instead of ending with 5 only, after asking 5, go split your group to smaller, and pray for themselves to love their enemies.